Could anyone rec some spuffy fics with friendship between spike and xander,or spike and giles or spike and wesley? Spuffy with alot of hurt/comfort. And developing realationship type fics.

Most of MaryPerk's fics would fit the bill, you can find them on her web-site here :www.sinful-dreams.com/wicked/temptation/index.php

Thank you LizFayete. And for taking the time to post. Anyone else please?

Enigmaticblues has a series in which Spike and Wesley are friends and partners. It's quite good.  Um, I think Tales of Spike has some Spike/Wes friendship also, but I can't remember the title.  Hers may be a series, too, now that I think of it. 

Thank you very much slaymesoftly. Anyone else?

www.freewebs.com/enigmaticblue/cmna.htm is where you will find Engimaticblues marvelous series called Cast Me Not Away as well other follow-up stories in her 'verse.  Slaymesoftly is right; Spike and Wesley have a great friendship in it which is central to the plot, and there is also one of my favorite original characters of all times in it.  It does become Spuffy eventually but it is done slowly and realistically since the story begins after Buffy has beaten Spike in the alley and she has a lot to atone for and to do to win back his trust.

thank you sensei. And for taking the time to post. I will check it out.

Thanks for adding the url, Sensei. (I am soooo lazy!) And I'm with you - the OC is one of my favorite characters also and the Spuffy development is very well done and believable.  It's definitely a series worth reading, whether you're a fan of Spike-Wes friendship or not. :)

I had read one a couple of years ago, and had it on my hard drive, but I lost the info in the big crash. I went to Seeking Spike to find it, and here it is.
Spuffy W/ Spike and Xander friendship, Spike and Xander get caught in a time loop.
The Name of it is Dispose The Day by Sersi & Cylla, you can find it here:
www.catnip.me.uk/dispose.html


Edit to add:
You can also go to spuffyficrecs and ask about fics there

Thank you very much and for taking the time to post.