You must have something up your sleeve...  looking forward to seeing what it is!
Everyone's interactions were well done, believable both from a canon perspective and one where time has passed.  That sounds wierd, but I guess I'm trying to say that I can believe that the characters on the show would actually be like this if they'd been allowed to mature.
Oh - and  I like Cathy. 

Love this story but got caught up in Harmony - Buffy´s been mourning him for a year and he slept with Harmony and gets nothing for it? Not even one word in response? weird.

That was such a horrible nightmare, perhaps the magic hasn't  all gone.  I do like the grown up Xander, what a diiference a little change inattitude makes.